We all have pet peeves. They're just so damn unavoidable it disgusts me at times. However, having someone close to you tell you that you need to change something about yourself just because they don't like hearing the truth really pisses me off.
Especially when it's brought to your attention as an ultimatum, i.e. "you're gonna do this or I'm out!"
Apparently some people think they can just walk all over you while they do whatever the hell they want. Then, to top it off, they have the nerve to tell you that you're talking shit because you blatantly tell people when certain shit bothers you.
Yes, bad attitudes push me away from folks. Excuse the hell outta me for hating negative energy so much that I refuse to let it pollute my day to day life...wit ya sour self. I dare anyone to try and make me change who I am and put up with their bullshit for the sake of keeping them in my life.
How about eff you?! HAHA How does that sound? Hell to the NO I'm not gonna sit around caring about something or someone that wants to live "do as I say, not as I do".
So let's get on the subject of jumping people. Haha
Gotta get this off my chest. Not only have I been in this situation, but I've seen other people get jumped/jump someone. It makes me giggle every time. Not at the "target", but at the "attackers". Don't people realize they make themselves look like bigger cowards than their "opponent"?
Personally, I think fighting period is childish and trashy. No matter how many times you fight someone they will still have a problem with you, and they will continue to talk shit about you. What does it prove? How brave you are? How courageous you are? No honey it doesn't. In my opinion, it only proves you allowed the other person to get under your skin. So guess who really "wins"? LOL
Now back to the subject of jumping people. Men or women. Either way, having a group of people do your dirty work makes it clear you wouldn't handle it on your own. One on one. Otherwise you wouldn't bother having someone jumped. Don't get me wrong, if someone puts their hands on you then by all means do what you gotta do. But keep in mind it's different to start a fight than to defend yourself.